Coach Stavola
03 Nov
03Nov

I was on a national call with our client success managers the other day. We focused on communication, specifically how to enhance our engagement, understanding, and responsiveness to clients’ needs. We also talked about strengthening our connection with one another. A common sentiment emerged: "We need to communicate better." But is it just about communication?


This led me back to a framework I've relied on for years as a foundation for meaningful conversations. I call it the CARE framework. It's an analogy that emphasizes building genuine connections.


C - Curiosity

CARE starts with being curious. Are you genuinely interested in your customers' needs and what's happening with your colleagues? This curiosity should be authentic, with a focus on the person in front of you.

A - Authentic Trust

Authentic trust involves three key aspects:

  • Consistency: in your attitude, actions, and behavior.
  • Character: having the right mindset and intentions.
  • Competence: being skilled at what you do.

R - Relentless Education and Development

Focus on continuous growth for yourself and others. This means daily effort, not just occasional training.

  • Education as the Playbook: Education serves as your team’s blueprint for success. A well-educated team or client base can effectively execute strategies and tackle new challenges.
  • Prioritize Development Over Training: Focus on integrating development into daily actions to build and grow your teams continuously.
  • Create Value with Clients: Foster relationships by providing education and insights that deliver tangible value.

E - Empowering Vulnerability

By focusing on curiosity, authentic trust, and relentless development, you create an environment for vulnerability. This allows for open and honest conversations, leading to deeper connections.

  • Create safe spaces for dialogue where team members can express concerns and ideas freely.
  • Implement regular check-ins and one-on-one meetings to discuss progress and address any challenges.
  • Practice active listening to validate and understand different perspectives.


C.A.R.E in Sequence

To maximize engagement, follow the C.A.R.E strategy. Start with curiosity to understand, build trust through consistency, provide education for growth, and then demonstrate vulnerability to deepen relationships. This sequence ensures you build engagement on a strong foundation of trust and understanding.


Combining these four essential elements of engagement can transform how you connect with your team and clients, ensuring long-term loyalty and high performance. Give the CARE framework a try and see the difference it can make in your interactions.